After a fair amount of kissing, both people are generally ready to start having sex. Now you have to deal with clean up. This is essential for good sex. While everyone goes at their own rate, there are lots of people who suck as partners who have had plenty of sex, and lots of people who are amazing partners who are just starting out. If you and your partner are close try to cuddle after sex or at least talk about what just happened. Nov 15, 2:
I asked our writers, as well as those from our sister sites, what they feel are the worst, dumbest or most ridiculous virginity myths.
I was ridiculously terrified about having sex for the first time with someone who had also not had sex before. The text signaling all your girlfriends that you are no longer a virgin. As you can see, it is dubiously accurate! The anticipation has resided, you have finally had sex and hopefully it was a success. Finally, once you have fully recovered from your first sexual experience, you must send out the text.